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From Psychology Today Magazine - The Relationship between sensitive people and narcissists
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sense-and-sensitivity/201305/the-relationship-between-sensitive-people-and-narcissists

Unfortunately, without learning to love themselves, hurtful people spend their lives trying to get the love they’re missing inside from someone else. That someone else is often a sensitive person because we have Compassion written all over us. But don’t let it be you. You are not responsible for someone else’s journey. What you are responsible for is your own journey, your own feelings, your own life. You don’t need to feel good about yourself by depending on others to tell you you’re a kind person or thanking you for helping them or making you feel needed. Relying on someone else to make you believe these things will only make you dependent on them, and then you will become a victim once again. You need to give all that to yourself. Show up with everything you need in your own back pocket. Know that you are a good and kind person, know that you are capable of enormous compassion and love and know that you are deserving of love yourself. If the other person doesn’t reflect that in the way they treat you, it’s time to leave.
The following are further reasons why HSPs are often attracted to narcissists:
1. Our giving nature means we often put other people’s needs before our own.
2. We’re so open we take on other people’s stuff like emotional storage containers.
3. If you have low self-esteem you can overlook the signs that things aren’t right, that you aren’t being treated right and so you ignore the injuries to your self and let it continue.
4. If you feel like a victim or have been victimised in the past, you will project that belief outwards. Narcissists will pick up on it and home in on you as a target. (See my post Feeling Like a Victim)
5. HSP’s sensitivity to other people’s feelings means it can feel wrong to say no. We think since we can feel it, we must do something about it. But we are not responsible for other people’s feelings.
The way to stop attracting narcissists is to change your beliefs about yourself and the way you feel about yourself. Here’s how:
1. Set up boundaries to keep yourself safe. Learn to let in people who will be there for you and keep out the people who only want something from you. I highly recommend the book Boundaries for specifics on how to set and enforce your boundaries and keep negative people out of your personal space.
2. Focus on your positive qualities and feel good about yourself, by yourself. Write in a journal to get your feelings out and develop an awareness of who you are, your feelings and your beliefs. Read back over what you’ve written over a period of weeks or months to see how you’re responding to situations and you’ll begin to see patterns in your behaviour and your beliefs about yourself and your relationships.
3. Learn how to use your sensitivity and empathy for the good. Two of the best uses are helping other people in a volunteer or charitable role and channelling it into a creative pursuit. Using your creative energy, in either volunteering or creative ways, will help you to feel grounded. You will feel a sense of belonging and connection to the wider world, and that you have an essential place in it. By shifting your energy into an activity you are passionate about, you will also give yourself something positive to focus on so that you’re not focusing solely on giving to someone who is making demands of your energy and attention. At the same time, you will be filling your life with positive feelings. Without this connection, you can feel frightened and alone and afraid to let go of what’s bad for you and too easily forget that you are connected to everything and that you are loved and safe.
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Saturday, February 15, 2014
Love This Site.. Everyone needs to Learn this stuff. Must see, read, understand. Psychtronics.com
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Interesting Four Faces of Introversion
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Sunday, February 9, 2014
Latin is the language of the "law"
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Saturday, August 18, 2012
Charlie Sheen on The Tonight Show with Jay Leno - YouTube
Charlie Sheen on The Tonight Show with Jay Leno - YouTube
This is why I love Charlie Sheen, always have, always will ;) Go Charlie!! Way to Come Back!
This is why I love Charlie Sheen, always have, always will ;) Go Charlie!! Way to Come Back!
Sunday, May 13, 2012
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Ortel Discusses Volatility and Investment
Charles Ortel of the New York-based research firm Newport Value Partners discusses with LIGNET, in an exclusive interview, major changes affecting international investing. According to Ortel, “The name of the game now is volatility, and short-selling, and derivatives.” He also worries that small fortunes are being lost by retail investors who have not thought through the practical consequences of what is happening in the advanced countries.
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The Ukrainian government will soon name which firms won a competition to develop two large shale gas reserves . . . Reuters quoted a source today that Royal Dutch Shell will win the Yuzivska shale reserve, estimated to contain 2 trillion cubic feet of natural gas, and Chevron will win the Olesska reserve, believed to contain 0.8 to 1.5 trillion square feet of gas . . . ExxonMobil, Italy’s ENI, and Russian firm TMK-BP are also in the competition . . . if awarded the contracts, Shell and Chevron will partner with state firm Nadra Ukrainy and Ukrainian firm SPK-GeoService . . . Ukraine is estimated to have 42 trillion cubic feet of shale gas, Europe’s third largest reserve . the government is eager to rapidly develop its shale gas to reduce its reliance on Russia gas which has shot up in price and is causing friction between the two countries . . . although the fracking process necessary to extract the shale gas has attracted protests in many states – and is banned in France – protests that could delay or stop these deals are unlikely since the environmental movement in Ukraine is very weak.
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**Oil companies in the U.S. aren't allowing this administration's Big Government Control Freaks to keep them down and out.
The Ukraine's anti-fracking interest is very weak, so EFF U Environmentalist Frauds. Hope all our Oil Companies jump all over the world to make the best ENERGY deals by-passing a Congress by-passing Autocrat. You want Global, Global we'll get... leaving your ass in the dust... He can't take credit for the price of gas going down now either... He'll try, and since this is won't even make it to Fox News, unless they start getting a clue, neither will you. Don't buy his bullsh** .. Everything he's done has and will be to tear this country down to an impotent, weak, broken hollow shell, a replica of the man himself, a loser. Everything AMERICANS do will go against Treason and Tyranny. Vote for this guy and learn how to kiss the sky because you'll never regret anything more.... Don't be an Obama whore.




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